How to Become Involved in the World of BDSM?
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« on: February 08, 2012, 03:42:17 am »

Hey guys,

Just wondering where is the best place to be introduced to the world of leather/bdsm. I know of at least one leather bar in my town, is it a good idea to start there? 
Also is it reasonable to assume that guys who are into the leather/bear scene are also into BDSM?

Thanks in advanced  Smiley


« Reply #1 on: February 08, 2012, 04:07:40 pm »

A Leather bar is a good place to start your explorations. I will assume that you are willing to introduce yourself to other bar patrons and staff and discuss your interests in BDSM.

Without the requisite leather gear you may have some difficulty getting the attention of those people you want to meet. So be willing to be creative and bold in your approach to this world of Men you desire. You might try contacting the local Leather Club to attend some of their functions as well.There is no guide for you to follow that I know of but you can accomplish your task given enough effort on your part.


« Reply #2 on: October 12, 2012, 02:04:05 am »

How about someone that is into bdsm but not into leather?
No leather/bdsm clubs around that I'm aware of. Sad
Any thread here that would act as a guide?
You know... watch that movie first, then read this, see that.


« Reply #3 on: October 12, 2012, 02:16:46 am »

Leather is never necessary for BDSM scene but they do tend to go together quite often.

Try this site : hXXp://

I think you will get some answers there.


« Reply #4 on: December 21, 2018, 12:46:37 pm »

Checkout Gay Kink for Newbies


« Reply #5 on: January 05, 2020, 06:46:11 pm »

I'll start with recon, a BDSM dating app/web. Well, you can meet a specific person who is with the same interest as you. Or maybe grindr, but the chance depends on where you live.

Happy finding.

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