Sex on the first date??
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« Reply #20 on: September 22, 2014, 06:50:53 am »

i had sex on several first dates Tongue ... and most of it was awesome ...
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« Reply #21 on: October 02, 2014, 01:35:35 am »

I envyyyyyyyy! Cry
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« Reply #22 on: October 03, 2014, 05:37:09 pm »

My friend has a saying about sex on the first date.  Try it before you buy it.  It is better to know early on if the physical connection/fun will be right for you.
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« Reply #23 on: October 11, 2014, 11:32:26 pm »

Sex on the first date is a must unless you met on internet and suddenly the guy appears to be really unattractive.
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« Reply #24 on: October 12, 2014, 02:37:44 pm »

On second thought, if you planning a one night stand, then sex on first date works just fine.
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« Reply #25 on: October 13, 2014, 10:56:13 am »

I'm afraid that I ALWAYS have sex on a first date, just discuss it and do it, if you are sexually incompatible then the relationship might struggle on for a bit, but it's not going to last properly.
Open frank discussion is far better than being coy
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« Reply #26 on: October 13, 2014, 11:58:41 am »

Preferably I would like sex on the first date. you can just break down so many barriers after a fuck and things just seem so much more open. That being said I don't mind not having sex till after the first date but don't keep me waiting too long  Cool
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« Reply #27 on: October 17, 2014, 11:00:16 pm »

Sex on the first date?? No, thx
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« Reply #28 on: October 21, 2014, 12:07:04 am »

I don't think this question has a universal answer. I guess it all depends on your cultural surrounding... your country, province, city. Some places are more conservatives. Having sex on a first day in a big metropolis such as NYC, London, São Paulo, etc will be judged by society in a different way as doing the same in a country village of - I guess - nearly any country. But the most important thing is: who is actually judjing on that? Society or yourself?
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« Reply #29 on: October 21, 2014, 08:48:23 am »

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« Reply #30 on: October 21, 2014, 05:24:07 pm »

Sadly there is no definite answer to your questions. Some people will meet up and immediatly have sex before they even say two words to each other and will be together for decades. The truth of the matter with regard to sex is that it largely will depend on the societal background that you are in as sexual hangups are usually a personal reaction to societal influences. Really it's whatever feels right for you. So if you are comfortable having sex on a first date that's fine or if you would like to wait a year that's fine as well. Remember that sexual compatibility is a major factor in the subconscious cues that will attract you to a potential partner so if you start feeling too rushed or that you're waiting too long that is most likely what your partner is thinking as well. I guess to summarize this little report society's role in the sexual scripting process (yes I went to school for this stuff) "just go with the flow" and use plenty of lube and protection. 
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« Reply #31 on: October 30, 2014, 06:39:00 pm »

In my experience, so far, it was always sex before anything else. All of my relationships were with guys I just met and had sex with, then it turned out we really liked each other and it became something more serious and permanent.
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« Reply #32 on: November 02, 2014, 02:39:35 am »

true Smiley nice
but lately all my sex encounters actually happened on a first date, like "nice shoes. wanna fuck?" Smiley
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« Reply #33 on: November 03, 2014, 06:31:16 am »

I think if you wait you get to know the person more. Once you have sex you lose some interest usually.
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« Reply #34 on: November 18, 2014, 07:33:22 am »

Once, and have some fun from someone you don't know clearly
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« Reply #35 on: November 25, 2014, 02:37:29 am »

1. I don't think there's anything wrong with talking about sex
2. This is my general rule: if the date went well and I want to see the guy again, I avoid sex on the first date. I guess it's just my way of seeing whether he's serious or just in it for the sex. If, on the other hand, the date was just meh and I don't see the relationship going anywhere, I might have sex on the first date. Because if I'm not going to see him again I might as well have some fun.

Oh the possibilities.

Isn't it usually if a date goes well you are rewarded not if it goes bad.
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« Reply #36 on: November 25, 2014, 02:40:55 am »

I have a friend who is just starting to explore his interest in men. He told be the difference between women and men are.

Women want to date first, then have sex.
Men want to have sex first, then date.
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« Reply #37 on: November 25, 2014, 03:26:56 am »

I have a friend who is just starting to explore his interest in men. He told be the difference between women and men are.

Women want to date first, then have sex.
Men want to have sex first, then date.
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« Reply #38 on: November 26, 2014, 04:18:27 am »

I tend to wait until after the 2nd date, at least. Mostly, it's a feeling of how we are clicking. I've been successfully woo'ed  Cheers but I also enjoy a modestly paced dating game. I like the chase for a time. I think everybody does. Not game playing, but just the excitement of meeting someone new and all that that entails.
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« Reply #39 on: November 28, 2014, 06:36:43 pm »

Yes, I always start with sex, if it works then next date Smiley
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