Gentle or Rough Sex?
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« on: May 24, 2016, 01:03:33 pm »

My other half sometimes gets a little too rough when making love to the point where I have to push him away as a "breather" moment. Whether its putting his tongue down my throat or pulling on my balls, he gets a bit over excited I think. I often think back to others partners Ive had and how gentle they were. Anyone have similar experiences or have a desired preference for gentle or rough sex?
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« Reply #1 on: May 24, 2016, 01:34:25 pm »

to me gay sex is a dominant/ submissive game. if you are the top dominant, then you need to be rough.
when  I bottom I hate to have to tell the top to be more aggressive. big turn down when the top asks you  ' are you ok? blabla" dont ask bitch go ahead, I'm your toy!
and I hate when I'm top and the bottom acts as a feminist bitch (if I want a "delicate, politically correct fuck then I fuck a girl. If I fuck a men it's because he is my equal and as such I can treat him like I want) : "no you can' t force me to suck you if I dont want to.." yeah right, choke on it and shut up slut..
It's just a role play. when it's over the dominant/sub game stops and you resume a normal relationship (friend or BF). Of course one needs to assume his sexuality totally to be able to do that and have an healthy relationship with the friend / boyfriend.
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« Reply #2 on: May 24, 2016, 02:21:06 pm »

Have you discussed this with him? What you like/dislike.
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« Reply #3 on: May 24, 2016, 04:26:11 pm »

Gentle  Wink
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« Reply #4 on: May 24, 2016, 09:09:38 pm »

Sounds like you two might need to have a chat.

I personally like both, depending on the mood, but that requires you to say what you are after as you start getting frisky .
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« Reply #5 on: May 24, 2016, 11:15:37 pm »

It's about pacing and leveling with each other for me.

I like starting out gentle then building up to as 'rough' as both would consent. Wink
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« Reply #6 on: May 25, 2016, 05:29:49 am »

I enjoy both equaly. It depends on my mood whether I'm having rough or gentle sex.
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« Reply #7 on: May 25, 2016, 08:10:51 am »

Something in-between like passionate sex Cool
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« Reply #8 on: May 25, 2016, 10:24:16 am »

In between. Prefer passion over everything.
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« Reply #9 on: May 25, 2016, 01:06:41 pm »

Something in-between like passionate sex Cool
This Tired
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« Reply #10 on: May 25, 2016, 07:06:08 pm »

ALWAYS ROUGH
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« Reply #11 on: May 26, 2016, 01:29:55 pm »

It depends...
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« Reply #12 on: May 26, 2016, 09:31:21 pm »

rough
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« Reply #13 on: May 26, 2016, 09:38:22 pm »

Both. It mostly depends on the situation imo. There are times where gentle is so much better than rough and vice versa.
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« Reply #14 on: May 27, 2016, 12:21:21 am »

Both. It mostly depends on the situation imo. There are times where gentle is so much better than rough and vice versa.

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« Reply #15 on: May 27, 2016, 06:12:06 am »

Gentle has its place, but nothing beats a rough aggressive man on man, break a sweat, fuck.
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« Reply #16 on: May 27, 2016, 06:26:19 pm »

when  I bottom I hate to have to tell the top to be more aggressive.
Absolutely, I want tops to be dominant and rough with me.

It's about pacing and leveling with each other for me.

I like starting out gentle then building up to as 'rough' as both would consent. Wink
100% if the top starts pounding like a jackrabbit the moment he enters it makes the hole sore for the rest of the night.  Start slow and strong then build to rough passionate fucking.
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« Reply #17 on: May 27, 2016, 10:39:50 pm »

I love an intimate, passionate, and soft assfucking. Also lots of kissing.
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« Reply #18 on: May 28, 2016, 01:25:20 am »

to me gay sex is a dominant/ submissive game. if you are the top dominant, then you need to be rough.
when  I bottom I hate to have to tell the top to be more aggressive. big turn down when the top asks you  ' are you ok? blabla" dont ask bitch go ahead, I'm your toy!
and I hate when I'm top and the bottom acts as a feminist bitch (if I want a "delicate, politically correct fuck then I fuck a girl. If I fuck a men it's because he is my equal and as such I can treat him like I want) : "no you can' t force me to suck you if I dont want to.." yeah right, choke on it and shut up slut..
It's just a role play. when it's over the dominant/sub game stops and you resume a normal relationship (friend or BF). Of course one needs to assume his sexuality totally to be able to do that and have an healthy relationship with the friend / boyfriend.

spoken like a true dom !

but more to the point for rudolph, i think you should talk about it with your SO
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« Reply #19 on: May 28, 2016, 11:56:14 am »

to me gay sex is a dominant/ submissive game. if you are the top dominant, then you need to be rough.
when  I bottom I hate to have to tell the top to be more aggressive. big turn down when the top asks you  ' are you ok? blabla" dont ask bitch go ahead, I'm your toy!
and I hate when I'm top and the bottom acts as a feminist bitch (if I want a "delicate, politically correct fuck then I fuck a girl. If I fuck a men it's because he is my equal and as such I can treat him like I want) : "no you can' t force me to suck you if I dont want to.." yeah right, choke on it and shut up slut..
It's just a role play. when it's over the dominant/sub game stops and you resume a normal relationship (friend or BF). Of course one needs to assume his sexuality totally to be able to do that and have an healthy relationship with the friend / boyfriend.

I totaly agree. My husband is Dom/Top and im submissive and 100% bottommy husband in bed. He is in charge of our lovelife/sexlife and knows what i need and knows what he needs and how to get it Smiley
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