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« on: July 04, 2016, 09:33:44 am »

I do that and then I feel a little weird because I feel like I haven't moved on. Do people really stop loving other people?
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« Reply #1 on: July 04, 2016, 12:57:06 pm »

No. I think love can change as does a relationship. I think you can love someone and not have sex, have sex and not love, so why would you stop thinking about an ex as a jack off fantasy?
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« Reply #2 on: August 22, 2016, 10:42:03 pm »

I used to do it pretty regularly but stopped. For relationships that have ended and for which there is no hope or desire of resurrection I made the choice not to tease myself mentally with re-living something which will never happen again. I found that stopping that helped me to move on because I stopped reinforcing those feelings by masturbating to those experiences. With random porn it's emotionally different because they're all just anonymous strangers with which you have no emotional connection.
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« Reply #3 on: August 23, 2016, 04:23:49 am »

I used to do it pretty regularly but stopped. For relationships that have ended and for which there is no hope or desire of resurrection I made the choice not to tease myself mentally with re-living something which will never happen again. I found that stopping that helped me to move on because I stopped reinforcing those feelings by masturbating to those experiences. With random porn it's emotionally different because they're all just anonymous strangers with which you have no emotional connection.

I agree with you, but in my situation this happens only when I am heartbroken from a break up. By the time I have moved on or met someone else and started something new, I am capable to masturbate thinking previous lovers / crushes without feeling sad after I cum.
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« Reply #4 on: August 23, 2016, 04:36:25 am »

I tend to avoid thinking about exes in that way for the most part. It stirs things up. Although I do have the occasional bit of nostalgia and fantasize about the guy I hooked up with for the first time. We were each others first time and it was hot while it lasted.  Grin
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