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« on: October 08, 2016, 03:54:07 pm »

have you ever wanted to break up with someone but you have no guts to do it cause the person is nice? Like - you dont want want to break up cause he is a good person, never done anything wrong, but you simply dont love him anymore. So you stay in the relationship trying to make the person happy, but feeling miserable inside.
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« Reply #1 on: October 08, 2016, 04:45:51 pm »

have you ever wanted to break up with someone but you have no guts to do it cause the person is nice? Like - you dont want want to break up cause he is a good person, never done anything wrong, but you simply dont love him anymore. So you stay in the relationship trying to make the person happy, but feeling miserable inside.

I was dating a guy two weeks ago, at first it was all nice and cool then he started coming on too strong and was just too fast. I do not like it, when it comes that fast, it just does not feel alright to me i can not take it seriously. So at that point I knew it would end anyway and since i did not want to hurt him any further I told him totally honest and said this is not what I want, I think you are an awesome guy but this just does not feel right inside me.

Being honest is key to every relationship, believe me.
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« Reply #2 on: October 09, 2016, 01:29:26 pm »

Well if you are not happy then eventually you will not be able to make him happy. I think that discusing it calmy and maturely with him will help.
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« Reply #3 on: October 09, 2016, 07:29:38 pm »

I can totally relate to that. My case was a three year relationship and I kept procrastinating to end it. He was probably the man with the best personality, it's just the feeling wasnt there. Nonetheless telling break up is like a nail stuck in your body, the longer you let it stay, the more festering it does to you. Our breakup did not end well (obviously), but it was a huge relief knowing that I gave him the chance to find another special one who truly deserves his kindness.
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« Reply #4 on: October 10, 2016, 05:42:56 pm »

i had  good relation  with   my dream man  but now he  travel to Canada  really i miss him!!
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« Reply #5 on: October 12, 2016, 02:33:42 pm »

I was talking to a guy online for over a year. We really clicked, lots of mutual interests, he made me laugh all the time, both crazy attracted to each other. We literally talked every day, sometimes all day long, via text; we'd talk on the phone at night, j/o with each other over skype. We finally took the plunge and met in person. Spent a fantastic day together. Had lunch, saw a movie (cuddled during it, it was great  with love), walked in the park, made out in my truck for a couple of hours. It was a perfect day.

After about a week, when I said "hey let's go out again" he became increasingly avoidant. Stopped texting me. Wouldn't return my calls. Finally he tells me "I'm not into this anymore." Like, wtf. It really hurt me. I'm still hurt over it.

So my advice is, if you're gonna break it off with someone, don't be a dick about it. He honest, but be kind.
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« Reply #6 on: October 12, 2016, 06:09:15 pm »

I was talking to a guy online for over a year. We really clicked, lots of mutual interests, he made me laugh all the time, both crazy attracted to each other. We literally talked every day, sometimes all day long, via text; we'd talk on the phone at night, j/o with each other over skype. We finally took the plunge and met in person. Spent a fantastic day together. Had lunch, saw a movie (cuddled during it, it was great  with love), walked in the park, made out in my truck for a couple of hours. It was a perfect day.

After about a week, when I said "hey let's go out again" he became increasingly avoidant. Stopped texting me. Wouldn't return my calls. Finally he tells me "I'm not into this anymore." Like, wtf. It really hurt me. I'm still hurt over it.

So my advice is, if you're gonna break it off with someone, don't be a dick about it. He honest, but be kind.
Been there and could;nt agree more with ya.
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« Reply #7 on: October 19, 2016, 06:18:52 am »

I'm in a weird situation. I have been together with a guy for 3 years and I love him dearly. I alway try my best to make him happy and to make us work. There have been many times where I've tried to break up and he has asked me back.

He does not want to settle down with me though. We are in a state of limbo. An open relationship. I know I am more of a backup. He always says if I have my own business or if I am a doctor he would settle down with me.

I could never understand that. I guess, I just want him to love me for me, not because I'm a pharmacist or a doctor or lawyer or whatever it may be. Being a pharmacist doesn't define me. Being a helpful person defines me. Being able to help people in times or need and crisis. Being able to provide advice and counselling when they feel unwell or down. That's part of who I am.

I'm just sad he doesn't want to settle and wants me to be wealthy.
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« Reply #8 on: October 26, 2016, 08:44:57 pm »

Sounds like he just wants to use you.
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« Reply #9 on: October 26, 2016, 10:08:39 pm »

Sounds like he just wants to use you.

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« Reply #10 on: October 28, 2016, 03:09:31 am »

I don┬┤t know if i am a cold blood person. But, i entered on a relationship and i got very, very bored with It... And, he was a nice person. So...
I just said ┬┤i am not happier anymore┬┤. Well, he got anger and upsad and etc... But, what could he do? It wouldn┬┤t get any longer if one of us unhappy.

I chatted with him by phone. It┬┤s better. You don┬┤t really have the guts to tell it face to face.
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« Reply #11 on: November 01, 2016, 01:01:11 pm »

I don┬┤t know if i am a cold blood person. But, i entered on a relationship and i got very, very bored with It... And, he was a nice person. So...
I just said ┬┤i am not happier anymore┬┤. Well, he got anger and upsad and etc... But, what could he do? It wouldn┬┤t get any longer if one of us unhappy.

I chatted with him by phone. It┬┤s better. You don┬┤t really have the guts to tell it face to face.

Breaking up over the phone?

That sounds easier than when you are in person, isn't it?

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« Reply #12 on: December 06, 2016, 02:30:09 pm »

I feel bad for you
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