Giddiness/nervousness prior to meetings
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« on: October 09, 2016, 02:41:53 pm »

I did not have my first homosexual experience until somewhat later in my life.  Despite being with a couple dozen guys since then, I am always a bit nervous and excited before hooking up with someone — even those I have been with many times.  it's not something I would classify as fear, but kind of cute actually Smiley
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« Reply #1 on: October 09, 2016, 03:57:50 pm »

Sounds entirely natural to me. Just enjoy  Smiley
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« Reply #2 on: October 09, 2016, 04:20:00 pm »

I think it has nothing to do with being gay - I am sure most straight men get excited / nervous before meeting women too Smiley
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« Reply #3 on: October 09, 2016, 05:59:47 pm »

I know it's normal to some extent, it's just I am always surprised by it.  I say to myself, "I've been with this guy ten times probably, why do I still get the same feeling as the first time we met before he knocks?"  Cheesy
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« Reply #4 on: October 11, 2016, 12:12:12 am »

It's normal, especially if you don't know the person well.

Your profile says you are from Egypt and I have heard of gay men being arrested there so maybe that has something to do with it?

A bisexual friend of mine he visited Egypt and was thought of as exotic since he's tall and has blond hair, and he did not have sex with any men there or even flirt with them in public since he worried about being arrested or getting into trouble.
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« Reply #5 on: October 11, 2016, 12:30:28 am »

Exactly what i feel right now. Staying in Egypt at the moment. Afraid to go out and meet people. Hookups? Too scared man.
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« Reply #6 on: October 11, 2016, 07:20:36 am »

I know the feeling that no matter how you want to relax and looks cool, excitement and nervousness somehow creeps in  Smiley
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« Reply #7 on: October 12, 2016, 11:35:58 pm »

Your profile says you are from Egypt and I have heard of gay men being arrested there so maybe that has something to do with it?

Most guys I meet are educated and professional.  The sites I frequent tend to weed out average idiots with mobile apps.  I've never been fearful of hooking up from that standpoint.  The guys who have been arrested are blatantly gay or flaunting it in public.
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« Reply #8 on: October 12, 2016, 11:39:51 pm »

Exactly what i feel right now. Staying in Egypt at the moment. Afraid to go out and meet people. Hookups? Too scared man.

Why would you need to go out to meet people?  Most "cruising" here is online.
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« Reply #9 on: October 13, 2016, 12:33:41 am »

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Why would you need to go out to meet people?

Why do I find that sad?
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« Reply #10 on: October 13, 2016, 02:20:05 am »

ok cool. and what is this site you speak of? Cheesy
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« Reply #11 on: October 13, 2016, 08:31:29 am »

Why do I find that sad?

You shouldn't.  It was my preference even when I lived outside of Egypt.  I am not into clubs or "the scene."  It is a waste of time for me.  I am more likely to find what I am looking for on-line, particularly since I am into bears and daddies.

ok cool. and what is this site you speak of? Cheesy

Well, for me silverdaddies and bearwww have provided some great hookups (here and elsewhere), as well as long-term buddies.  I had a couple hookups using Growlr.  The most recent arrests I am aware of were (a) at a bath house, (b) on a cruise boat that was almost exclusively gay, and (c) at a party held almost exclusively by gays (with many sissy-boy types, who by their very nature attract attention).  In other words, people doing things in public that inventively draws attention to themselves.

Homosexuality is very alive here, it is just not in your face.
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« Reply #12 on: October 13, 2016, 11:27:12 pm »

I always felt weird and nervous before meeting someone... That was something I didn't like at all... But I guess it is naturall... I feel like that before almost everything. :p
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« Reply #13 on: October 14, 2016, 07:37:41 am »

if I think about what's about to happen too much, I get nervous as well
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