difficult to find love as a chubby

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im overweight and find it difficult to find love...anyone else have this problem. the climate is pretty unforgiving sadly

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uhm, don't think about yourself as being overweight and less than someone with six pack abs. Personally, i think you need to get on sites that cater more to chubs or bears and then start from there.

I'm biased since i love chubby or bigger guys. Skinny really doesn't do it for me.

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If we have a chance to meet outside and i know you're into guys, i'll totally come to you and say hi. I have a huge crush on big bone, chubby guys. Overweight to me it's not a big deal, as long as i find cuteness in you )))

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Admittedly there's a reason why fit guys are used in advertising- they conform more the societal norms of attractiveness. And yes, fit people would have an easier time on the surface than overweight guys...
BUT- that's just part of the story. There are other factors which in a way are more important- like your confidence, how you carry yourself, your sense of humor and overall personality. Just don't get caught up in the whole trap of going after guys who are fit and looking for fellow fit guys. That's just asking for rejection. Go out there, have fun and you'll attract the attention of people who are into you. The more people you meet, the better your chances of finding someone who'll find you attractive.

That said- it never hurts to lose a few pounds if you can- more for health than anything else. 

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I mean this in the sweetest way posible: Finding love is hard for EVERYONE, even the super cute celebrities.

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