Would/Have you ever out someone who is in the closet ?
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« Reply #20 on: January 08, 2018, 05:14:51 am »

never. sometimes you will kill them. i think we need rights based on we observe the system, we can’t use sexual orientation as someone’s weakness and criminal. if you want Equal rights , you need treat orientation like nothing. bcos you can’t hurt someone by announcing heterosexuality . as gay do this to gay people makes even hurt than others. how do you feel if your family betrayed you. grosses me out.


« Reply #21 on: January 12, 2018, 01:51:35 pm »

I did a very public outing of a local evangelical preacher about a decade ago. I just couldn't resist it because of his really hate filled anti-gay crap.
Even gave him a chance to stop it beforehand but he refused.
So I let everything I had on him out.
Lost his wife or fiance, church and moved to Arkansas.
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« Reply #22 on: September 21, 2019, 01:43:35 pm »

no no no no, hell no


« Reply #23 on: November 13, 2019, 05:44:20 pm »

Well, I came out a year ago to a few people. The only people I really  care enough to know. Back when I was in the closet for everyone I was dating a guy who recently had been discovered as gay, and gossips flew in college... He always said we met in secret 'cause he didn't want people to treat me like him.
Everyone thought we were good friends, and that I wasn't aware of his sexual life, and tried to "advice me".
When the day came, and I finally came out to close friends and my mom and sister, he broke my heart, he broke up with me on a facebook message. Ended up discovering he still insisted he wasn't gay and tried to convince everyone of that.
Eventually he came out, and months later we met at a party and since then he is trying to convince me to have sex with him, he already has a partner.

I don't mind if someone doesn't feel like coming out, because there was a time I also didn't, but now I just get away as soon as it starts getting like this story again.


« Reply #24 on: November 18, 2019, 02:53:49 pm »

Outing someone is indefensible. There is only one exception to the rule - if that person is actively harming other gay people with their behaviour, i.e. being a hypocrite. Example - politicians who vote for anti-gay legislation but engage in homosexual activity in their private lives - they deserve to have their careers and reputations destroyed for being a self-hating hypocrite.
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« Reply #25 on: January 12, 2020, 11:19:33 am »

As much as I would like to say NO.

However, I am human and prone to weaknesses and may accidentally in the heat of the moment out someone.

But it's still and should be a no for me.


« Reply #26 on: September 02, 2020, 09:59:25 pm »

No never, outing somebody is loosing their trust and humiliating them.


« Reply #27 on: November 21, 2020, 03:27:30 pm »

I guess only if they are being extremely homophobic?


« Reply #28 on: November 21, 2020, 03:41:59 pm »

No, never in my life. It would be one way of denigrating and humilating someone who is not ready to (or simply does not want to) come out.

I wouldn't have liked to be forced to be out of the closet when I was not ready.


« Reply #29 on: November 21, 2020, 04:01:09 pm »

Never! One of my nephews and one of my nieces are both gay.

My nephew waited until he was financially stable out on his own at 18 before making a public coming out post on Instagram.

My niece is in college and she turned 19 before posting beautiful sappy pictures of her and her girlfriend on Facebook and coming out.

Just a bit irked that the possibility of my alleged status as Favorite Uncle might be due to my orientation and not because of spoiling them. I could have saved some money. (Kidding)

Everyone's journey is different, no way will I be a pothole on their road.


« Reply #30 on: November 22, 2020, 11:29:24 am »

It will depend on the personality of that closeted guy. Remember the movie East Side Story, I would do the same if I was the girlfriend.

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