Do childless people ever regret not having children..?

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What do you believe about this issue:

Do childless people ever regret not having children when they become old and need help?

 

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Not from what I have seen. But it all depends on who they are around.

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From my perspective, those who have children -- even partly as an insurance policy for their own elder care -- is a sad reason, indeed.

I don't have children.  I don't want children.  I'm a bit too eccentric to provide the constant oversight and sacrifice required.  I enjoy the company of some of my friend's kids at parties, especially if they're thoughtful and bright for their age.

And I'm saving enough money for retirement so that I've got a spare bedroom for a private-duty nurse, if ever the need may arise.

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From my perspective, those who have children -- even partly as an insurance policy for their own elder care -- is a sad reason, indeed.

I don't have children.  I don't want children.  I'm a bit too eccentric to provide the constant oversight and sacrifice required.  I enjoy the company of some of my friend's kids at parties, especially if they're thoughtful and bright for their age.

And I'm saving enough money for retirement so that I've got a spare bedroom for a private-duty nurse, if ever the need may arise.

Agreed! 110%. It is a poor reason to have children. Sadly there are people who have children when a) They are not ready or B) Have not thought it through properly c) have them for the wrong reasons. I had better stop talking or this is going to be a huge rant.

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From my perspective, those who have children -- even partly as an insurance policy for their own elder care -- is a sad reason, indeed.

I don't have children.  I don't want children.  I'm a bit too eccentric to provide the constant oversight and sacrifice required.  I enjoy the company of some of my friend's kids at parties, especially if they're thoughtful and bright for their age.

And I'm saving enough money for retirement so that I've got a spare bedroom for a private-duty nurse, if ever the need may arise.

you don’t get the idea of having children. not only for elder cares. it’s all about heir. you genes and wealth. some part of you will keep living by the policy. no one wants to endup with lonely and life stops forever.

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you don’t get the idea of having children. not only for elder cares. it’s all about heir. you genes and wealth. some part of you will keep living by the policy. no one wants to endup with lonely and life stops forever.

I am offering a personal opinion on having children.  You are also offering a personal opinion, but you are framing it as an absolute truth and negatively judging people who are making different life choices than yours in the process.  I "get the idea" very well, thank you.

My life is anything but lonely, and our overpopulated world can survive without my creating an unwanted child.  For your information, there are many of us who are opting not to have children, and our "lives are not stopping forever."

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The people I know who chose not to and have children have no regrets.

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From my perspective, those who have children -- even partly as an insurance policy for their own elder care -- is a sad reason, indeed.

I don't have children.  I don't want children.  I'm a bit too eccentric to provide the constant oversight and sacrifice required.  I enjoy the company of some of my friend's kids at parties, especially if they're thoughtful and bright for their age.

And I'm saving enough money for retirement so that I've got a spare bedroom for a private-duty nurse, if ever the need may arise.

Agreed. I am too into myself for it ( i am not too self-centered, only have my priorities in order now). Even take care for a couple of hours for my little nephew is really cute but not something i would like to do more than that-

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children are gift to mankind . they just make the house exciting and beautiful. can be challenging but fulfilling all the time

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No regrets on us not having or adopting children, but once in a big while there might be a . . . what if . . .. Searched and found this topic, because today is one of those what if days, with Christmas coming up and we have not seen the kids lately because of Covid-19.

Have changed plenty of diapers, and pitched in when asked between relatives, neighbors, and friends. Some have went on vacations with us. The most rewarding times were with helping kids with challenges, especially when they need physical therapy. Kids are sometimes easier to surprise and delight.

No regrets, but do miss them.