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« on: September 23, 2017, 04:24:07 pm »

Coming out is a very difficult choice so I'd want to know, who was the first to know about your sexuality (excluding your partner).
Sincere answers, please  :Smiley
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« Reply #1 on: October 02, 2017, 09:35:20 am »

My Family
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« Reply #2 on: November 01, 2017, 06:01:21 am »

I was.   I played many sports growing up.  I played my part well. 
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« Reply #3 on: January 05, 2018, 01:56:08 am »

1) the person i had sex with: i was 18, he was 29... some random man i found on irc chat Cheesy

other than gay people i told only to my mother Cheesy
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« Reply #4 on: January 06, 2018, 04:40:17 pm »

my brother I loved, he is the only one living person who knows my sexual orientation. I also tell my father at his funeral. I don’t have gay friends here, but my brother have two gay friends two doctors, but they don’t know me.
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« Reply #5 on: January 28, 2018, 02:29:53 pm »

No one..there is no rule that you should really come out as gay out and out
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« Reply #6 on: February 20, 2018, 05:49:18 am »

No one..there is no rule that you should really come out as gay out and out
I agree with you assuming that the reason you may choose not to come out is purely & truly because you could care less if people knew.

That aside, I think the first person to know was a girl-friend I had in middle school, 6th grade I think.
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« Reply #7 on: March 05, 2018, 06:35:38 am »

My (straight) female friend was the first to know, back in 8th grade. Though, I told her that I was bisexual because I was in denial. 'Told her that it was a 60% to 40% ratio (boys to girls) and then I eventually came out to her and a few other female friends as gay.
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« Reply #8 on: March 12, 2018, 05:36:45 pm »

My female friends here as well
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« Reply #9 on: March 14, 2018, 10:55:26 pm »

I was basically forced to come out to my mom because I needed her to take me to my HIV appts... It was really rough , then she made me tell my dad - but they eventually just accepted me for who i am 
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« Reply #10 on: July 19, 2018, 10:01:09 am »

A female friend. At first I told her as a joke to see her reaction. But found out she is cool. she rather enjoyed listening to my gay life when I came out to her.  Grin Grin
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« Reply #11 on: August 02, 2018, 05:26:10 pm »

First I started opening a anonymous account on Twitter. There I made a lots of friends who understood me. I'm from a little town in Andalusia (Spain) so the option of comming out so young was out of question. In the university I also made friends who know I'm gay, people on university are more open-minded (still there was some assholes, but only a few). The only person I have came out is my best friend (and after a few weeks he came out on me telling me he was bi LOL).
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« Reply #12 on: August 20, 2018, 11:26:42 am »

The first time I said it to someone (besides myself) was to a female coworker with whom I've had sex a few times. We were getting closer and when things started to get into romance I felt like I should just tell her that I'm more interested in man than in woman. I was very afraid of her reaction but I had nobody else with intimacy enough to tell this. She took it kinda of well, was supportive and didn't tell anyone about it (that I know of), but we got distant and I could see a bit of dissapointment in her. Life moved on anyway and I felt relieved to have told it to someone.
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« Reply #13 on: October 05, 2018, 09:09:19 am »

Well first my parents , family, then later friends .
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« Reply #14 on: October 23, 2018, 03:00:45 pm »

a classmate I was in love with
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« Reply #15 on: January 13, 2019, 06:22:28 pm »

it depends on the person. if the person really feels he had to tell someone to relieve something then go for it
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« Reply #16 on: August 04, 2019, 03:58:12 pm »

A couple of girl friends in high school.
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« Reply #17 on: August 08, 2019, 11:04:35 am »

Besides the guy I was dating at the time, my boss and coworkers. 

I got a job at a gay business.   
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« Reply #18 on: August 11, 2019, 10:22:57 pm »

a good friend after that my family
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« Reply #19 on: August 12, 2019, 12:33:33 pm »

its always the family  Shocked
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