I feel like I'm a bit different compared to a lot of the gay guys I know (even though I don't know that many)..
I'm a late thirties, casual looking and acting guy living on my own in the Netherlands..
I've been in a 7 years relationship, but after that I've been single for over a decade..
I rarely have a sexual encounter with another guy.. I think the average is.. not even once a year?
These encounters have mostly been with guys I've known for quite some time.. most gay, one straight (and married..)..
The last 10 years I've had one anonymous date with a guy I met online and never met before (or after)..
I don't particularly like anal sex, although I've fucked my bf during our relationship.. but I've never been fucked and I don't fancy it either..
I have loads of (mostly straight) friends and yes, I'd love to find another boyfriend, but most gay guys I've met the past decade just seem to be too feminine for my liking, too much of a dramaqueen.. or just after one thing.. a quick fuck.. And the few (2 as far as I can remember) that I really liked, weren't interested in me..
Don't get me wrong.. I'm perfectly fine with the situation even though every now and then I would just like to have a bf.. or even just someone I can have (casual) sex with every now and then, but it seems as if the majority of the gay guys are either hooked up or solely interested in a quick fuck..
I can't be the only one ?