Guys... I never thought I would create such a stupid topic. But how do you feel about sizes.
So if I loose an arm during a war or just a finger or have acne, then he would leave me because of my appearance? How many of you focus on the dick? Cause I take in an account actually everything BUT it.
It's not a dumb topic.
A little prolog, gay men when I was coming out were obsessed with sex and had too few places for release. There was comparatively little pornography to todays supersaturation and nowhere near the knowledge of what you could do sexually.
When I came out my first bf was way too big for me and since we didn't know what we were doing, sex was awful but when I gossipped with my friends they were all envious: a man with a big dick was what you wanted, so that idea got wedged into my mind.
Sometime later I dated a guy with, no joke, about 1.5 - 2-inch penis. It freaked me out. We had sex but I ghosted him later.
Now that I'm older and understand where sex fits into a relationship and know what I'm doing in bed, penis size isn't so important.
I guess what I'm trying to say in a roundabout way is that for many men there's a learning curve where you think you know what you want, you think you know what sex means, then you grow up and put things into perspective. Of course, there are people who never mature past a certain point and others who need a longer penis to be able to reach inside. For me, not such a big deal.