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« on: February 24, 2018, 02:36:07 am »

Is it unheard of to not like anal sex? I'm very vanilla, and I'm not into pain
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« Reply #1 on: February 25, 2018, 03:05:21 am »

I don't like anal sex as a bottom.

I don't always like anal sex as a top.  When someone's ass is too tight it's like sticking my dick into a press.
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« Reply #2 on: February 25, 2018, 03:32:43 am »

They advised me too put a lot of lubes when the ass is too tight
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« Reply #3 on: February 25, 2018, 08:42:11 am »

99% of the problem of an ass being too tight is the bottom isn't relaxed enough. 

If it's more than a 1 night stand, then do some ass play without even trying to penetrate and work your way up.    Building trust and pleasure for the bottom is the best way to build up to actual penetration. 
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« Reply #4 on: February 25, 2018, 04:35:19 pm »

99% of the problem of an ass being too tight is the bottom isn't relaxed enough. 

If it's more than a 1 night stand, then do some ass play without even trying to penetrate and work your way up.    Building trust and pleasure for the bottom is the best way to build up to actual penetration. 

Exactly. No need to rush straight to anal sex. Focus on some assplay and wanking, and work up to anal.
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« Reply #5 on: February 27, 2018, 09:09:19 pm »

They advised me too put a lot of lubes when the ass is too tight
Lube is just the first step.  If you're new to bottoming, do yourself a *huge* favor and find a patient top.  1) Relax.  2) Lube.  3) Relax.  4) ass play.  5)  Relax.

The right partner will take the time to help you relax and open up.  If they just dive right in, you're not going to enjoy it very much (unless you've been doing it a long time and are into extreme abrupt entries.)

Might even get yourself a few small/medium toys and have a party of 1 to find out what works for you. 
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« Reply #6 on: March 16, 2018, 11:52:26 am »

Unheard of, no. But it's uncommon for gay men to not like anal sex in any shape or form.

The reason why I say it's not unheard of, is because me myself included, I do not really care for anal sex. I'd rather just not do it.

I mean I'd be open to do it, but I'd rather not.

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« Reply #7 on: March 22, 2018, 03:54:27 pm »

Everyone has their own preferences.  You shouldn't feel obligated to do something that you do not enjoy.  Talk with your partner, and I'm sure you can both find some common ground where you will both be satisfied.
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« Reply #8 on: March 23, 2018, 01:18:51 pm »

I dunno, lately I also am not feeling like having someone fuck me. I still haven't had any hookups, but at this time, I'd be satisfied with just sucking each other off.
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« Reply #9 on: March 23, 2018, 05:14:10 pm »

I’m not into it as a bottom at all and personally don’t understand the appeal or enjoyment of it so that bit I do get.
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