There is no need to be so aggressive. I have never said he wasn't a nice guy, I just didn't want to trigger anyone making them remember something as horrible as rape.
And I wasn't being disrespectful, I respect gay culture and all LGBT people.
I was looking for something lighter, maybe even supernatural.
So, it's common "Nettiquette" that when you ask a Forum question, you lead with an example of your own.
Too many people (not necessarily you) open many, many threads without contributing any of their own experiences related to the topic.
Sometimes this 'hit-and-run" posting is for seed points, or simply not realizing the value of providing one's own reason for asking the question.
I look forward to your nurturing this topic by investing the time to participate by way of personal example -- perhaps supernatural!