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« on: June 30, 2020, 10:39:23 pm »

During the first year on my marriage and while we were dating i was unfaithful i stopped after before our 2nd year of marriage. things are good but im not sure if i should tell him.
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« Reply #1 on: July 03, 2020, 09:08:42 am »

I do think the deserves to know the truth.
Trust is the most precious value in a couple, in my opinion.
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« Reply #2 on: July 05, 2020, 12:58:00 am »

I can understand not wanting to mess with a good thing, but also consider that secrets like this have a way of coming out eventually.  How would it affect your relationship for him to find out from someone else versus you telling him on your own?  Tread carefully, and consider what you know about your husband's personality, but my gut says an honest confession is going to lead to a stronger marriage than comforting lies.

Also consider that he may know already.  I was in a relationship with a guy who would very obviously lie about looking at, talking to, and later meeting up with other guys.  He's done the same with his boyfriends since, as well.  I wouldn't have minded so much if he didn't always deny it, but he seemed utterly incapable to admitting to any fault.
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