I'm 22 and still in the closet... my traditional asian parents already started pressuring me to bring home a girlfriend and settle down
but the thing is I'm gay and they have no idea. Being also the only child I feel even more responsibility and pressure to give them grandchildren and carry on the family name. Unfortunately I don't really see coming out as an option. I know that ideally telling the truth is better than lying, but to come out knowing that it would hurt and damage my family, knowing that they wouldn't accept me.. it just makes me feel very selfish.
Does anyone here have a similar story? what is your experience?