My first time being bottom-any position suggestions?
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« on: November 19, 2015, 05:40:22 pm »

Ok, soo...after couple of years being strictly active police, I found a guy to whom I am willing to open my hole Shocked Grin
I plan to use poppers and I am mentally prepared to be fucked but he is biiiiiiiiiiig afraid so could you tell me some position in which it won't hurt *that* much...
Also, any other useful tips would be great laugh
thanks with love
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« Reply #1 on: November 19, 2015, 06:49:56 pm »

get it done while you're in prone position.
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« Reply #2 on: November 20, 2015, 12:24:39 am »

On your back, not on your front. Something about being on your front makes you more prone to tense your thighs and buttocks but your mileage may vary. People say be on top (with him laid down and you sat on him) that's ok because you have control but I still say on your back is better because your legs don't have to support your body weight which again can tense up the thighs and buttocks. even if you are on your knees either side of his body there is a tenseness about that position that can go against relaxing your asshole especially if you start off in that position. Oh yeah I'm not saying stay on your back, do it all every way you can think of and see which you like best!

Relax take it slow, make sure he takes it slow. there's no rush and your ass will not want it to happen at first, it takes time relax especially first time. imo, bigger might be better first time I think bigger relaxes your hole better.  Cheesy
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« Reply #3 on: November 20, 2015, 06:32:47 pm »

I have a bigger one than average and if for my partner it was too painful I told them to lay on their side so I could cuddle them from behind while penetration and it always worked  angel From the other side im kinda in your shoes and the only way it works for me is to being fucked while im on my back idk why
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« Reply #4 on: November 21, 2015, 03:02:45 am »

yeah sideways but remember to elevate the leg.
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« Reply #5 on: November 22, 2015, 12:18:26 am »

MISSIONARY Smiley
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« Reply #6 on: November 22, 2015, 02:35:37 am »

Take it slow... or suffer the consequences 
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« Reply #7 on: November 22, 2015, 03:57:32 am »

If you want him to have the control, then I would say lay on your side.  If you want the control then I say, you on top and ride him.  Being on top you have control of how fast and much you can take at any time.  Take it slow at first and remember to relax, do not tense up for this will make it much more painful.
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« Reply #8 on: November 23, 2015, 12:59:32 am »

Get a dildo, and try different positions, also will loosen you up.
Riding gives you more control but gravity is also pulling your innards down.
Lying down relieves some of that, and having your hips elevated can also help.

But.. most of the trick is relaxing your sphincter to get it in.
So comfort is important.

I think a patient/experienced top is more important than the actual position.
Even if you popper up, if he goes too fast and you don't loosen up you're going to be uncomfortable, and maybe clench.
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« Reply #9 on: November 23, 2015, 02:26:03 am »

In addition to the positions the others mentioned, here are a few things that help me. Relax, Relax, Relax and more relaxation, but be extremely horny. Let the anticipation of him penetrating you build. I wouldn't jerk off or have sex for a few days before. Also, don't be afraid to use a ton of lube. Lastly, (my experience), the cleaner you are, the less it'll hurt too. Have fun.
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« Reply #10 on: August 14, 2016, 09:23:17 pm »

ride him until you are comfortable...then any position will do
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« Reply #11 on: August 15, 2016, 05:15:11 am »


Good luck!

 with love

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« Reply #12 on: August 19, 2016, 01:07:09 am »

try riding
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« Reply #13 on: August 20, 2016, 10:03:06 am »

always be on top Crazy? Crazy?
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« Reply #14 on: August 20, 2016, 04:58:26 pm »

Loosen up with a dildo on your own beforehand. Learn to recognize the sensation of your 2nd sphincter, the involuntary one. Use much more lube than you think you need!
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« Reply #15 on: August 22, 2016, 02:29:08 pm »


always be on top Crazy? Crazy?

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Loosen up with a dildo on your own beforehand. Learn to recognize the sensation of your 2nd sphincter, the involuntary one. Use much more lube than you think you need!

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Tell us your experience afterwards!


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