Stereotypes and reality

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So.....we lurk at a gay porn forum. Pretty sure we're familiar with the stereotypes. The jock, the nerd, the daddy, the sissy, the gym bunny, the size queen, etc, etc.

Have you met someone who fits in the stereotype you like ? Are they as attractive as they are in porn? Or are things more...grey?

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If you mean if I ever have met the ones like jocks, bears, twinks, etc, the answer is I only have met twinks and bears and they are some of the most affectionate people I've met. For gays at least. I haven't met jocks save for the ones in dating app, and so far they ignore me. I'm personally unattractive (in my opinion), so I assume the jock types won't be into me in real life, even for being mere friends.

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I identify myself as a Nerd-Twink, and I have met and hang out with many other gay nerds and also with many bears.

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Generally speaking porn stereotypes ruin reality. The expectations that come with connecting with a live person are altered if we expect what is found in porn.

Porn is for fun. The best idea is to just find someone with a like mind.