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« on: September 27, 2016, 04:53:41 am »

I know, by posting this I hand out an open invitation to internet trolls or grammar demons (I'm not native English).

But since this is a porn sharing website that thrives on active (anonimous) people, it seemed like a logic place.

I'm a 34 year old guy from Belgium, I'm not unattractive, unhealty, basically normal. Yet unhappy. In a weird way I'm not able to connect or meet other men. I'm not the kind of guy that goes to gay bars (we also have one in the area, and it's not the of place you wanna go if you are not into abba or older things, people included).

I'm not a nun, on the contrary I lean towards the fetish scene. But the balance between doing the deed or just downloading porn became more vague over the years.

While writing this I already regret it but I think (or hope) that a few feel the same.


« Reply #1 on: September 27, 2016, 05:20:30 am »

It seems to me that if you want to have more meaningful relationships the only real solution is to go out there and make them. Easier said than done, I know.

You have two main ways- meet them online- yes even on a porn site like this. It's possible to get along with and find some connection with the people you meet on chat or on forums.

The second way is to take on activities you enjoy and hopefully meet someone who enjoys the same things you do. Even if it is only as a friend- who knows--someone you know might introduce you to a future relationship.

If you feel that porn is holding you back though, you have a decision to make- you may want to give it up and push yourself to find more meaningful connections.

Tell someone you love them today, because life is short.
But shout it at them in German, because life is also terrifying and confusing.
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