How can I enjoy topping more?
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« on: March 02, 2017, 06:49:13 am »

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« Reply #1 on: March 23, 2017, 02:51:08 pm »

Erm...just...don't top? If you are not into it, why should you do it? Even if you are in a relationship and your partner is a total bottom hole pig...then he is just not the one for you (sexually).
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« Reply #2 on: March 23, 2017, 10:14:30 pm »

For me, topping is something that I really have to be in the mood for, and to get in the mood, I need long foreplay and to be really turned on so that I last for a while. It is NOT something that I have ever been able to do with a hookup or when I am in a hurry, even though many of my previous casual hookups wanted it bad, and instantly.

I find that topping is more about the shaft of your penis than the head. So it also helps to change your masturbatory habits if you really want to be an effective top. I only top in my long term relationships, when I actually don't masturbate at all, or very infrequently. I found that the habit of rubbing a quick one off - where speed and efficiency are the focus - reduced my ability to top. Instead, perhaps it would help to focus on the shaft - squeezing and milking and making it last for a long time - rather than the head of the penis. The shaft is really where one feels the pressure when topping, and if you get to enjoy that ring-like squeeze, you will enjoy topping. The best oral sex is also when your partner squeezes the shaft while performing. The worst blowjobs are those guys who only focus on the head of the penis.

I have never felt the slightest inclination to be a bottom, so topping is that only thing I do, but honestly, I am perfectly happy not having any anal sex at all.
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« Reply #3 on: March 24, 2017, 03:19:41 am »

I think that having a playful and relaxed attitude helps in sex in general, not just topping.
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« Reply #4 on: March 24, 2017, 03:52:38 am »

Erm...just...don't top? If you are not into it, why should you do it? Even if you are in a relationship and your partner is a total bottom hole pig...then he is just not the one for you (sexually).

This, if you're not into it, why do it?

I am  a top and I get turned off by men who only want to do anal sex when they have sex, and who are as this person describes a total bottom hole pig.
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