Well it's not actually my case. I mean, it WAS.
I just sometimes get and idea for the topic and create it to hear what you guys think of the things I got on my head. It doesn't always include me in the situation.
But yeah, if it was me I wouldn't be up for it. Anyway the guy & I didn't click, I didn't really know what I was thinking about him, there was sure something I liked cause he was really big and I like big guys, but his head was such a mess. The more I knew him the more I disliked him. In the end it turned out he was just playing. He 1) started the whole relation with me by asking if I have a boyfriend 2) he told me he wants to meet me but he doesn't want to meet with a guy who's not single 3) he texted me good morning and good night everyday 4) he texted me "ugh... guess you don't like me that much cause you text so rarely" 5) he wanted to meet for a moment just to see "if I'm his type or not" 6) he actually got super spontaneous and offered me a meeting a day earlier cause he wants to spend time with me. And then after the meeting when I said it doesn't make sense (us, meeting) he said that we can still meet if I come to his city (he promised he will visit mine - so notice the change in the behavior), and I was like "what for?" and he said "the same as earlier", me like "MEANING?" he replied "spend time, talk" and was really fucking pissed off at that moment so I asked me if he can stop being such a fucking dickhead and answer directly and he said that "he never wanted to meet me in terms of relationship, cause I'm not the guy he would love anyway. he just wanted a colleague". LOL. that's totally what he said, judge for yourself looking at the situations above that I pointed out. So that was for me. I know the guy was actually sacrificing and visiting him from far away and they dated or smth and the other guy showed up with money and he said to that guy that "he will meet with that guy for half an year, gather some money and they will be together" and the guys was like "are you fucking kidding?" and he left. That was actually so cool of that guy. He thought he's gonna forgive him but he didn't. So the dickhead drove to his city just to talk to guy for 15 minutes but the guys totally dumped him
That actually satisfies me so much <3
But what about you guys ? I don't need advices anymore on this topic but I'm wondering what would you do? If the guys was really really your type, would you act differently? Imagine your husband in that situation or smth.