Have you ever used someone strictly for sex and then left after you're done with
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« on: October 05, 2019, 03:39:50 pm »

Have you ever used someone strictly for sex and then left after you're done with him?

Or have you spotted someone and said to yourself I need to get in his pants just once, after accomplished you done with him.
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« Reply #1 on: October 05, 2019, 09:37:32 pm »

I would't say I "used" anybody, but yes I had several casual flings with people no strings attached. I prefer to stay for a couple of minutes before going, I usualy stay for a cigarette and then I go home
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« Reply #2 on: October 06, 2019, 06:18:27 pm »

Casual hookup?  Of course.  Sometimes life gets complicated.  Sometimes you miss intimacy but don't have the time or energy to pursue a relationship.  Sometimes you're just horny as hell.

Make your intentions clear, be respectful, protect yourself, and don't overthink it.
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« Reply #3 on: November 19, 2019, 05:40:22 pm »

Yeah. Primarily that's how my same-sex encounters go. Get it going on Grindr, meet up, pump and dump and split.

Was never interested in dating men.
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« Reply #4 on: December 24, 2019, 03:23:25 pm »

yeah..
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« Reply #5 on: December 24, 2019, 06:49:21 pm »

Make your intentions clear, be respectful, protect yourself, and don't overthink it.
This is the key:  Make sure both guys have the same understanding.  I've had a lot of "one time recreations," but a few of them have gone wrong when the other guy thought it would be the start of something ongoing.  I regret not having made things more understood.
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« Reply #6 on: February 09, 2020, 11:08:33 pm »

Well that is a "no strings attached" hookup. Pretty common, and not something to look down on when both participants know this is the goal.
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« Reply #7 on: February 15, 2020, 06:53:16 am »

No
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« Reply #8 on: February 16, 2020, 11:14:36 am »

this is most of my sex. But, its with the same people. The relationship we have is only sexually based. Which I think is fine - as long as everyone involved agrees and is cool with it.
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« Reply #9 on: February 16, 2020, 02:13:55 pm »

I came out at the end of the 70s.  I used bath houses and backroom bars on a frequent basis.
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« Reply #10 on: February 17, 2020, 03:35:24 pm »

Yeah, especially with people whom I meet from Grindr.
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